I sit here a bundle of nerves at the task I have given myself for the moment. I love to write. I love people. I love to encourage people, especially hurting ones.
random ramblings about life as we live it
I sit here a bundle of nerves at the task I have given myself for the moment. I love to write. I love people. I love to encourage people, especially hurting ones.
I am always on the quest to better our diet as a family. That can be challenging with a dear hubby who grew up on the typical American Mennonite diet consisting of high amounts refined white carbs, cream of mushroom soup and Velveeta cheese. Tonight however I concocted something healthy that actually ended up being quite tasty. Not only did I use whole wheat lasagna noodles (bleh is what I would’ve thought about that before trying these!) I actually used my trusty vita mix to whip up an amazing very green (literally) cheese concoction that won the hearts of my kidos who now think green cheese is the coolest thing ever. (kind of reminds me of the fun I have sneaking cabbage into the Vita mix ice cream I make for them–but that’s a post for another day when it’s much warmer. And hey don’t knock it before you try it- it really is good too! Come over and I’ll make you some just to prove it)
Here is how I did it:
I have long been a fan of the natural ways for caring for one’s health. My mom was big into helping our family and the many others that came thru our doors hoping to feel better. When she first started using essential oils we kids used to make fun of the smells that drifted out whenever she opened her van door, her purse or her closet where she kept her stash. Now I am her. Recently someone came close enough to smell the recently applied Thieves oil and commented about it as did the lady at the hotel when we checked in and she smelled the ones poking out of my travel bag along with my diffuser I take everywhere. A few years ago I would not have gotten caught dead smelling “natural”. Guess I have matured or gone nutty?
Some of my many favorites just to name a few include Valor, Peppermint, Thieves, Harmony and of course Lavender.
Sometimes tho I doubt myself and worry I put to much stock into the stuff I do to take care of myself and my family after all we still get sick and have actually had some fairly major issues where we have had to use some traditional western medicine this very year. Over all thru trial and error and many experiments I am finding empowerment and feel armed and more able to do things to help us get out of the slump of yucky. I love learning about health and how the body works and am so blessed to have people surrounding me like my colleague Dr. Bradi Arnold who wrote a very convincing article about the importance of fevers and how they fight infection. Here are a few direct quotes from her write up which she kindly gave me permission to share.
Many parents panic when their child has a fever. I did too the first time a child was
brought to my office with a spiked temperature of 102.5 F. It is a scary thing to see that child
hot, flushed and obviously very uncomfortable.
It is important to learn ways to manage your child’s fever and not lower it artificially with
over the counter medications. It would be best if you just threw these drugs away and don’t
even have them in your medicine cabinet because even infrequent use of an over-the-
counter drug like Tylenol has been linked with serious, lifelong illness like asthma.
Instead of panicking, honor your child’s fever and learn to use it constructively to improve
your child’s health and vitality over the long term, because, believe it or not, fevers are
fabulous and accomplish important things in a child’s developing body.
Whenever we would get fevers during cold and flu season, my mother would never give us
OTC’s to bring it down because she know that bringing down a fever would only prolong the
illness and would weaken vitality for the next illness to come – we would sicker quicker next
time.
Why do our bodies produce fever? One reason is that fevers greatly slow down
pathogens. Fevers are a highly beneficial immune response that we suppress to our
detriment.
The “germ” – bacteria or virus causing the child’s distress typically replicates every few minutes
and the fever slows this process down. Fevers work to slow down the spread and severity of
the illness and are your friend in avoiding a secondary infection (usually respiratory illness), a
trip to the doctor and a script for antibiotics.
Repeated forced reduction of childhood fever has been linked to childhood cancer.
And eliminating fever will usually cause a secondary infection. When you bring down a
fever you start a domino effect toward antibiotic use. In other words, if you want to avoid
antibiotics, don’t bring down the fever. Fever reduction suppresses the immune system.
Your child is trying to get well himself with the fever and when you bring it down you are
opening him up to a secondary bacterial infection that will further entrench the virus or bacteria. It cannot be stressed enough that fever has an important role to play in your child’s
overall well being
So when you bring the fever down you are giving free license to the virus or bacteria to spread in an unrestrained manner. And don’t panic if your child’s temperature gets to 102-103 F degrees—this is the ideal range for a fever.
I can’t tell you how many times I have seen children spike a beautiful fever of about 102-103 F for a few hours with no other symptoms what soever. When the fever resolved, the illness was over. No cough, no rash, sinus congestion, no nothing. Just a fever and that’s it. I can almost guarantee that if the parents had forcibly brought the fever down with meds, they would have gotten a secondary illness on top of the fever – probably a cough or sinus congestion and the illness would have morphed from an afternoon of chills and discomfort into a two week ordeal with a trip to the doctor and prescription meds.
I was able to put some of this into perspective this week as each one of my children ended up with the dreaded 24 hour high fever/general achy flu. Tho every fiber of my being tensed in fear at Hunter’s rather high temps that stayed where they were for close to 6 hours I am already seeing benefits in his overall health just a few days later. I simply pushed fluids and kept cool washcloths handy when it was at its highest points and of course oiled him down with all sorts of my essential oils.
Another great learning source is my friend Kristi who is an amazing herbalist and puts together some potent formulas from the great Dr Richard Shultze’s recipes. She has been tremendously helpful in giving me ideas on how to rebuild good health in Alexia’s lungs since her hospital stay for pneumonia a few weeks ago. Who would have known stinky garlic chopped up and made into a poultice would help pull Lex out of respiratory distress? And her echinacia tincture is unbelievable. WOW!
I am blessed to have so many great teachers to help me along the path of help! I think we have so many wonderful God given tools available to help us along in the quest for better health and living.
I struggle with comparing myself and my family to others around me. There I said it. It doesn’t sound all that pretty.
I have to admit I fluctuate back and forth between secretly hating all the new year’s resolutions clogging up my news feed and a sudden burst of energy and new determination for some of the things I would like to see differently in my life. Like the typical ones, yes please! I would love to lose weight and yes! I would like to read thru the Bible this year and yes! I would like to think I can yell less at my children and yes! I would love to be debt free…the list goes on. But when I sit and ponder my mind flies a hundred different directions and I wonder what is really important? What can I aim for this year to really make a difference in my life and in the lives of those I love?
2013 was a beautiful but tough year. Our little family faced disappointments, with the most “fresh” one being the big deal of missing Christmas at Nana’s due to Lexi’s being in the hospital. Another biggie was hubby and I missing out on a whole week’s worth of celebration in honor of our anniversary because Kali was in the hospital. (yup, this natural minded, “crunchy” mama has had way to much hospital this year!) Probably the most stressful part of the year started when I got a call from my sister saying my dear mom was having a stroke. I still tear up thinking of all the emotions gripping at my heart as I beheld my strong vibrant mother helpless as a small child. Tough and not necessarily fun stuff….
The “prettier” side of the year was wrapped up in small presents and handed to us gradually just as we needed them… Kali has become more confident in her reading and I am now delighting in catching her sitting reading to her siblings. Both of our girls who had hospital stays and my mama are thriving and becoming healthy again. Hunter finally got his 2 front teeth out (after the new ones made their full show right behind). We got some precious time with Nana & Pawpaw in the fall when we met them in St Louis for a short vacation. Abby is finally sleeping in her big girl bed and not wondering aimlessly thru the house at all hours of the night. All of these may seem pointless and small, not really anything to make a big deal about, but they are gifts none the less….
I love finding the good which is present indeed in any circumstance. When Kali was in the hospital, she beautifully portrayed the simple love of Jesus to “mean man doctor” (as I referred to him) and to the nurses some of who had never heard the sweet simple song, “Jesus Loves Me”. When mama had her stroke, my siblings and I grew closer then we have ever been . When Lexi’s hospital stay resulted in us missing our vacation we actually benefited in catching up on some serious sleep deprivation and we had some stay at home as a family time even if it was forced.
Recently Hunter had some bad dreams that made it hard for him to rest. Ironically his Bible verse that we have been working on is from Psalms where it says simply, “What time I am afraid, I will trust in THEE”. I urged him to lay quietly with his flashlight in hand and simply quote that verse when ever he felt afraid. It calmed his restlessness almost instantly as he lay there and quoted that verse. The first night I heard him say it over and over and then just like that he was asleep and has been doing fine since.
Perhaps the most important resolutions include attempting to be more childlike in my faith and looking more intentionally for what God is doing even when life isn’t exactly how I want. After all no matter what comes our way, Zephaniah 3:17 says “The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with his love, He will rejoice over you with singing.” Who can’t burst forth with joy at promises like that?!